Blessed November..

I would like to share with all fwens..that this month is a blessed month for me and my family.
My life begin and started a new life this month. Not that i dont appreciate other months, but I
shall share with you the reason why am saying this...in my next post!!

I am so thankful O Lord, for all the blessing given to us until we can reach to this stage of
life. Please continue to bless us with love of yours.

To be cont.....

wow...nda berasai ka abis bulan tok..

wow..nda berasai dah ka abis bulan tok. Another 2 months agik , masuk taun baru. Ermm....bulan tok, maioh amat utai nyadi. Bisi yang bday and bisi ga yang passed away. For me, October very busy month...maioh kwn ku dah awal2 cuti raya. Left me alone in the ofis, and a few fwens tapi nda sama ngau ku ngadu keja yang sama. So bertambah la keja ku..but nice also, being so busy in the ofis nyo nda berasai ga jam maia ka pulai..

although busy in the ofis, tapi best ga maia pulai..coz daddy keith is having a long holiday. Almost a month ya cuti, so keith pun nadai la nurun playschool. Apa agik keith, so happy to know that he doesnt have to go to school. He can wake up late. He can watch cartoon the whole day and he can have his own chef at home...order ja ko daddy ya..hehhehe!!! Cute...

In daddy keith's family maioh yang born this month. Odil and Mummy...I did send bday wishes to Cik Odil on her bday...but i missed to wish happy bday to my MIL...Opps...I just noticed that last nite..I felt so bad laban ku lupak kol mummy. Hmm....blame it on Daddy Keith, hehhe...sama la kami duai on that day was busy ngau keith . So many excuses eh...Nvm, I pay back for this...Mummy, if u happen to read this " Happy Bday to you, May you be blessed with better health, happiness and love around you..."

Tomorrow is the last day for this month, we are aiming to improve for the following months..

I got this from Mak Mok..lets share these words..

Watch your thoughts, they become words
watch your words, they become habits
watch your habits, they become characters
watch your character, it becomes your destiny..


Cheers for this month of October.....

Tired October...

Haiya...this month is a tiring month for me, most of my friends taking leave for raya celebration. Some of them, coming in to office almost middle oct. Then, of coz la I will be the one handling all keja and with the help of Mr. WKY...not enuf ley!!!:(

Today m so happy coz my friend Nor will be coming back to office tomorrow. Feeling so nice having her around, all these while me alone in the office handling keja yang gilar2 banyak. Thank you Nor , u save me hehe...

Not much la this early month, most of the time alone...hubby will be having his long leave until end of the month...fuyooo..best!!! So no need to worry of Keith dont want to go to school, daddy is around now so he can take care of Keith.

Till then, will update in my next post...it has been a long time i didnt blog, so ngelusu..hahha...

Ciao....

My boy, Keith Henrique Gani

Handsome Keith Henrique Gani :)

Charity Dinner " Miri Food Festival"

Sorry for backdated update..boss was so kind last week when he gave us a free ticket to Miri Food Festival at Grand Palace. Hmm...was kinda blur and malas pulak want to go..as the whole day was hectic and busy from morning till 5. Non stop keja, workload....aduh, really lazy to go out.

Called up my hubby to ask him whether he wanted to join me or not..as our Keith was not feeling well so hubby was not working last friday to jaga him. "Keith okay already, so we can go tonite lor.." hubby said. Hmm...my head still pening2, still undecided whether want to go or not, I reach home 15 mins before 6. Then took 2 tablets of Pain Killer, had a short nap..but cant ketinggalan to watch that "Bawang Merah and Bawang Putih" movie...:)
After short nap, my head getting better..so I told Hubby , that we are goin but still bingung on what dress to wear. Decided to go there as casual,..and luckily all frens coming dress in casual wear, some even wear shorts...but the best of coz our Madam D, datang dengan boots lagi..huhu!!!

Enjoy the pics..too bad no foods photos taken, laban kelalu ka makai...hahaa...

**Mr & Mrs Jarvis Paul and Keith Henrique Gani***

****Nor and Family***


***Keith and Syahmi***


***Hubby and Keith planning ***

***Nor in shock***

***me and Cor (hate to show this pic but I have reason to be happy)***

Must remember all, every success you have now lies sadness and pain in the past.. every pain and sadness you u felt before, there is a success and happiness waiting for you di penghujungnya.. believe me??????


** Im looking forward to spend our weekend at Marriot Hotel( haha, I was lucky to have a free voucher that nite, yeeehaaa..) this coming weekend, we plan to lepak2 there with all fwens to celebrate Keith's bday,..till then, until we meet in my next post as I will upload our photos for this coming cheerful weekend..**

Im so lucky...

Im so lucky...should i say very lucky? yesterday, my purely atos nearly knock a couple who suddenly fall from the motorbike just in front of my car(yeah..blame it on the slippery road..). And just a few inches only, the couple almost "kena heret" by Atos. Aduh, and one lorry nearly knock my car from the back, just few inches from my purely Atos.If not, today I have to borrow Keiht's small bike there..:) Huhu...luckily I sempat tekan paddle brake. Else I couldnt imagine how it would be only if I suddenly jadi panik..and forgot to tekan brake. Fuyoo..I quickly go out from my Atos and check the couple. Sad to see the wife was crying, maybe too shock and takut...I tried to calm her down. Check those 2, in case they need me to send them to clinic as of coz the husband maybe terseliuh and the wife was crying sambil memegang tangan..they said they r okay. :( I proceed to office with my heart still beating fast, as Im still nervous for what has happened. Praise the Lord, that everything is alright.

** Be careful especially motor riders in front of you.. **

"Happy 59th Birthday Mak"

Hi fwens..Today is a special day for my mom. Ya manggai umur 59 taun saritu and gaga ati kami semua ka wish ya " happy birthday". Kemarik kami menyadi ber sms ngau pangan dirik ngambi ka ulih ngingat k bday mak. U know la, diatu semua urang sibuk ngau sebilik dirik kadang nyo enda ingat.

Pagi tadi tumu ku dah call mak ku to wish her "happy birthday". Ka labuh ai mata ku maia ku berandau ngau mak pagi tadi. How I wish aku ulih pulai and celebrate bday mak ke 59 taun.

Sempena bday mak aritok, ku ka cerita ke pengidup mak aku ke temu aku la. Unless mak ku bisi jadi superwoman suba enda ga ku nemu..hehehe..

Mak @ Evelyn Holly Sebom diada taun 1949, 20hb Jun. Ya anak ke 4 Sebom ak Ujang & Cherari Ragai. Bisi 9 iko sidak menyadi, and mak anak indu ke-2 and anak ke-4 sidak menyadi. Mak ku was a volunteer dalam church ari ya biak. Ari mit ku meda mak ku busy ngau gerija.Nurun niki gerija, nyaup bala indu gerija methodist iban sibu. Few times mak ku dah jadi Presiden Bala Indu Methodist Iban. Ya suah dah ngari ka gerija Methodist jadi pengari ke menoa tasik ( ko orang..). Salu kami menyadi nesal ati enti kami nadai ari begulai ngau mak di rumah. Most of her time , ya spend di gerija begulai ngau bala indu ke bukai ngemansang ke gerija kami. I salute her until now.

Not only that mak ukai sibuk di gerija ja, she was forced to join politic after dad ku gantung sebelah kasut ba politik. I think, late 90's mak ku jadi councillor for SRDC until today. Ulih kitai semua imagine how busy mak ku jadi mak kami di rumah, jadi inek ga, a wife to my busy dad, tuai ba "bala indu methodist iban" and a councillor. Kadang2 kasih ku meda mak ku, busy amat ya until nadai ari for sebilik ya empu. But somehow ku nemu mak enjoying pengidup ya and she has made us proud.

Pengidup mak ku ukai semina betati ke kami sebilik aja. Her minds tepaksa dikongsi untuk gerija, pengawa ya ja councillor and di rumah panjai. Ti kami sebilik pulai ke rumah panjai start la mak ku busy. Kami nguan bilik tuai, so enti enda entertain urang di rumah panjai nemu2 la kitai urang akan mula bejako ke kitai. Somehow, urang rumah panjai kami sigik manah memagang laban ukai urang bukai. Pemanjai 70 lebih pintu rumah panjai kami, setakat tok agik ulih ninga ke jako sidak ke tuai. Aku sigik arap ke mak ku and dad ulih mulai k dirik k rumah panjai ngau jampat agik. Ke ka ku mak ku rest at home. Until umur ya 59 jarang sekali meda ya di rumah ari pagi datai ke lemai. Bisi aja pengawa ya di luar.

Sempena ari pengada mak ku aritok. Ku besampi ngarap ke mak ku gerai, be blessed always serta jauh ari segala penyakit and panjai umur. Kami 7 menyadi ka ngenatai ke penyayau ati kami ngagai mak ku. She is the best mom that everyone should have. Very understanding, strict sometimes but nadai bagi ngau semua urang, nemu nya anak tauka menantu. We are equal ba mata ya.

Once again, We love you "Mak" and Happy 59th Birthday...

SELAMAT GAWAI DAYAK 2008

Ooooowhhhhhh....haaa.......

"One, two, three,four ,five, six, saaaaybennnnnnnn, im calling, im asking, im waving
grandfather god, grandmother god, father god, mother goo, keling giant nading, brave
and dare bachelor to bring luck, bring money, bring honey, bring happiness, be richest
like bill gates to you and ur family..."

" selamat ari gawai dayak, Gayu Guru Gerai Nyamai..."


Regards,
Mummy Qunna, Daddy Vis and Lil Keith

A day before my 31st Bday..

Hai....a day before my 31st bday. All my fwens in the ofc kept on asking me where u want to bring us for ur bday tomorrow huh? cis,...dah la umur meningkat , yet hv to cia them...wakkaka, i said end month la owh. Coz in my department luckily I have another fwen sharing the same bday with me. Well, ..tomorrow I will be 31, such a nice number coz my vehicle also carries that number...31, nice huh???

Many things I want to get rid off when I turned to the age of 31. I want to be as nice as I can to everybody. I do not want to bother to those who give problems to me. Not that i dont care, just I want to stay far from this group of people who envy and try to put me down just to make them happy..Dont care!!!! I will call my parent everyday so that they know how much I love them and appreciate all they have done to me until im 31. I will try to show how much I love my hubby and son so much, so that they will also love me..hehe, crazy if Keith put me in Old Folks Home, haha..! I will try to forgive those who have sins against me. Work harder this year! Maybe another Jarvis junior..haha, God willings! Many more I want to do after this...

Macam bulak pulak kan..dah 31 now, Im glad of having a great famiy, hubby and son at the age of 31. Many that I saw already reach 40 also not married, they can talk more and earn more but they feeling of having ur own family not many ladies can have. To all the ladies out there, go get married and cherish all the moment with ur loved ones. But marriage only without children also incomplete...I should thanked God for giving me such an understanding hubby and cute lil son Keith. I hope all of u who read this, pray for me ..so that I will be healthier, looks young 4ever..hehe, and happier.

To all my fwens..thank you for being there for me whenever I needed you so much..May God Bless Us All...

" Age is just a number dude!! Enjoy life the fullest and dont stop having fun...huhu"

Keith's coloring session..

Seeing him sitting there busy doing his own thing..hmm, makes me realize that he is growing up now. Always thought that he is still a baby, my hubby said stop calling him baby anymore coz he is a big boy now. Hmm...he is always my little baby I should cherish the moment that I have with him and my hubby. Like my aunty said, they're the only men you have in your life so cherish all the moment with them.


<< this is what Keith color yesterday... This is just a beginning, I forgot to take a complete picture that Keith has coloured. Haha, I am sure if I put it in here, most of you will be shocked..wakkaka, becoz the balloons that you see there..Keith coloured it black.. :)





Till my next post, daaa.....

Keith's exciting day...

After a long day of work, and boring Monday..me and hubby decided to bring Keith to his favourite place to eat..KFC, finger licking good.

Look down here how happy he was yesterday, just recover from his fever..has to reward him with KFC to cheer him up...and not to forget, the parent :)

*** happy faces of keith****

Makes me cry when I saw these pictures....

Ola..Im sharing all these pictures because I want all to know what I went through during my Lil Keith admitted in the hospital..He looks cheerful in this picture here...


How I wish I can see him smiling like this all the time , but only God knows how it really hurt me when I saw him crying...struggling to control the pain in him for his sickness since he was 5 months, been seeing all the specialists , doctor to doctor...clinic to another clinic..even seeing the traditional medical man aka " manang" ko kami iban...hehe..But maybe God is punishing me for what I have done like the song by Travis..Why does it always rain on me!!! This song really makes me think of what I have done before..I put him in God's hands now ..may God cure him, Amen.....

Enclosed are all the pictures taken when Keith was admitted at the hospital for you to view. Having such a cute boy like Keith is such a pain to see him crying....

** Taken while waiting for his turn to see the MA, was having abdomen pain..3 hours waiting and 2 hours after that admitted and an hour then, doc said he has to go for surgery***


** Before the hard time, see daddy's eyes...**


** After that..**


**Still semi conscious ..**


**2 days after that**


**a small "bisul" comes out, temperature reach 40.5, admitted again..**


**Daddy and son slow talk..**

These are the pictures that I can share here, It made me cry and shed my tears whenever I saw these pictures..but I am sure God has plan, and everything that happen for a reason..who knows, Keith will be a doctor when he grow up..hehe...God willings, Amen...


** Picture taken before Xmas, how cute he is..reminds him of Mr Bean..**

Thats all for now, chow....Please pray for Keith's health, May he grow stronger and be blessed!!

My new workplace..

Haiyeee...Nice feeling I have this morning at my new workplace..See down here, I like it when my workstation placed near to the window...but not nice also coz my big boss can see me lar...



Just to share with you all, I put in my new workstation..actually Im bored la, do not know what to do..so many things to do and just dont know where to start....arggghh, My fwen Lola is now in Jakarta..cant wait for her to come back, who knows dapat jumpa Ahmad Dhani katanya..wakkaka, Ahmad Gurka nda?????

Till then, chow fwen..

"A date to remember....you were born today, and taken at the same date...29 February"

Uncle Minggu Ak Engkamat, left us forever on 1 Mac 2002 ...days has past by very fast..yet ur smile still in my heart. I wanted to tell you how much I do care for you, how ur love has taught us way to live and to love one another. Not easy when every Gawai, we celebrate our enjoying moment without you. Ho..ho..ho...was ur favourite tag line...and until now its still everybody's favourite tag line. Can hear them say it loud...and slowly tears drop from my eyes....I do really miss u uncle...I know "abak" really miss you too though he did not show it out, deep in his heart he does have the emptiness to live without you.

Still remember uncle, everytime I wanted to go back to Uitm or Unimas, you will be around to pass me small notes or bigger and flip , put it in my pocket....ur generousity has been known to all families...But God loves u more than us..only Him can understand what you are going through. How u suffer alone. Without no ones knowing..u cried in your heart. Sorry that we never care to ask you, sorry that we never try to call you, sorry that we never try to tell you how much we love you and most of all sorry that we cannot be with you in your last moments. But most of all, we love you and will always do..

Please to all members of family and to the readers..spend your 1 minute to say this prayer for him...

"Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord, and let
perpetual light shine upon him: For evermore with
Thy Saints, because Thou art gracious.
May the prayer of Thy suppliant people, we beseech Thee, O Lord, benefit the souls of Thy departed servants and handmaids: that Thou mayest both deliver him from all their sins, and make him to be partakers of Thy redemption.
Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord. And let
perpetual light shine upon him.
May his soul and the souls of all the faithful
departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace."

Amen..

Tusut Peturun Lang Ngindang..Almost complete

I mostly read blogs ya ke bisi peturun aki ini kitai suba....selalu ku ka meda engka te bisi urang nulis peturun aki tuai kami Lang Ngindang...Here, ku nulis information ke temu aku mimit. I wanted to know more about peturun Lang Ngindang...


What I know, Aki Lang Ngindang tok orang datai di Bawang Assan. I wanted to learn more about him and I will continue when I got the complete information. Every Easther kami sebilik sigik routine ngabas kubur orang Bawang Assan di Nanga Lebaan. Mostly kami sebilik dikubur di tanah diak, my late aki Sebom ak Ujang, Inek Cherari tok ke ngada ke indai aku Evelyn Holly Sebom. Including aki Lang Ngindang dikubur diak, only ya ari sepiak apai ku dikubur di Nanga Lebaan. Becoz family sepiak apai ku bisi tanah khas untuk kubur sidak sebilik, that is next to SMK Bawang Assan. Mostly, urang BA nemu alai endor nya. But u cannot find kubur aki Lang Ngindang diak. I do not know why. But I will find out.


So tok tusut aki Lang Ngindang ke ditemu aku. I hope those who knows more bout this pls email me.....


Kedu bebini ke Una , seduai ya sama ari Engkari...(which I also dont know where this place)..wakkakka..
Ensumbar Kedu tok La Ngindang or Lang Ngindang..(update me whoever know more about this..)
Kedu bebini ke Una, Beranak ke Chaong
Lalu Chaong bebini ke .......(im stuck here)
Udah Chaong bebini, diak ya lalu beranak ke Gani..
Gani bebini ke Sebi..
Lalu beranak ke Engkamat,
Engkamat bebini ke Mok ak Laja (ari Ulu krian, Saratok)
Seduai Engkamat ngau Mok tok alu ngangkat k Jimmy
Tangkan ke Endun belaki ke Hillary Sering (ari betong)
3 anak lelaki ya ke benama Henry Punan, Minggu (deceased) and my dad, Johny Weiss Engkamat..


Tok aja information ke temu ku..tapi aku agik ka ngiga information lain and I will update it again...


When I finish doing this, I should start with the history of Gani ak Chaong..
U can find this picture di Muzium Sibu...ba civic centre.


Enjoy reading this...information yang ciput tapi bermakna ..Adios..!!

Hubby goin offshore today.....

Ermm....hubby goin offshore today, we planned to go back sibu for this CNY, but somehow my hubby got latest instruction from his boss to go offshore to replace him...Cancel plan...and last minute I have to call my sister in sibu , tepaksa la import my niece and nephew ,...nasib la dad ya keja with MAS,..anytime can fly not everyone can fly u know...so, at least my CNY holiday not that bored.
I need to plan activity for my lil keith and my anak buah who is coming later...

Gong Xi Fa Cai....Enjoy your holiday!!!!Daa......

A day when nenek go back kuching..

Erm....his first day when nenek go back kuching....My hubby called up, can u take half day leave???because my MIL goin back kuching..and keith never stop crying. Cried and cried...kept saying, y nenek dont sayang me...touched when i heard he said that on the phone...
and after 1 hour , i waited for my hubby to call and he did not call....
rupa rupanya....dah kena pow..beli toy ...wakkakakka....
thats the best thing to be daddy and mummy have to work...everytime anak cry, daddy has to go and buy toy .. coz they dont know how to tackle the lil kids and they dont know how to pujuk rayu anak2 with words.....only Mummy can do that....hehhe......love you sayang!!!

my lil keith's skin getting bad..

Oh God..Please cure him...

Dear all,

I beg to anyone who knows how to cure my son's , please email me or drop me ur information here...
It started when my son was 5 month, his skin getting dry and started to become worst after that..
went to all the skin specialist in Kuching...not only that we did try the traditional method as well..still no "tanda2" that he is getting better...last year and this year 3 times already admitted to hospital for his skin problems..and worst still, it also caused him pain in his abdoment...Please anyone...if you know anything bout this, and how to cure this..pls email me ...and please pray for my lil keith, I really hope this year will bring a better health to him. And everyone will pray for him. God Willings , Amen!!!

January End...

Ola...fwen...cant believe its the last day of January....this month to me is a balance of month, maybe can be rated of the best month ..should i say that??or maybe too early for me to rate it the best yeah, many things happen this month.. My hubby's bday is in this month..and my FIL 's b'day also this month. Nasib we move to miri, wakkaka...if not, i have to get banyak gift as many of my friends celebrate their b'day this month..arghhhh!!!!For my hubby this year, I get him a nice dinner with our lil Keith. Got him a new sandal..and I also change his color hair...ahaks..dalam keterpaksaan!! This month, somehow brought my MIL to miri..Keith got sick again. And was admitted to Miri hospital for 2 nites. I just started my new job, and its a big NO NO to my boss if i ask for longer leave...lainla ya apai ku..."How I Wish"..hehehe..so I have to ask sympathy from my MIL to come and jaga Keith, kesian my lil Keith..salu ja sakit!!!Im sure when he grew older...he will be fine..God willing!!! My career,....so far so good...its a lucky month to me, I got 2 offer..and one interview this month. How I wish that offer and interview came before I accepted this job..But somehow, I do love this job...its new thing to me....everyday im goin through a new process of learning..new info, new job...new ppl...precious!!!! Well, as i said life must b balance....happy and sadness!!! we must accept this , fact of life....2 of my love ones going far and forever..May both of them rest in Peace and be closed to Him...Amen.. Wat else...huh...o yeah, i have new puppy...cute one...i will publish its picture in my next post..wait and c ya.........chow!!! Hoping for a better february....time to be more romantic demi menghormati hari kekasih...wakakkak...jiwang... Da.....

Selamat Taun Baru 2008

oooohhhhhh......ha!!!!!!

Ku kirum ke kilum pinang laka, Di pit dara benama Jara,
Dalam gemaan periuk temaga, Ku pesan ngena temeran tali semaya,
Madah ke bulan nyau kleman nadai nyata,
Madah ke taun chukup ibun abis maya,
Ku nyampi ke kitai gayu guru gerai nyamai,
Betuah belimpah, bulih purih bisi jereki,
Bulih duit bulih ringgit,
Bekebung baka langit betuchung baka bukit,
Gayu ku sentuku gerai ku sempandai...

Selamat Taun Baru 2008......

Nya ya bulihh........hahaha